in the first person

The spiritual journey is about deepening into one’s essence and expanding into a consciousness which is greater than that of the individual. However, after enlightenment, the personal aspect continues to exist, albeit with less emphasis. In this blog, I (Andy) am exploring the human side of life from this personal perspective.

A flower.

photo by Premamui

27/08/2011

Here in Göteborg, one of the participants in a satsang said he felt like a ship at sea with a broken rudder. This analogy reminded me of a poem which came to me in January 2002 (whilst I was in the Canadian Rockies for some ice climbing and snow boarding, if I remember correctly).


Here is the poem. You can also listen to me reading it, in the readings page accessed from the bottom of the audio page.


Rest Awhile


Rest awhile!

For, as the trusty pilot whale,

You have steered us through troubled waters.


Oftentimes on this long voyage

I doubted your bearing;

Yet only my faith had gone astray.


For when our track seemed most haphazard,

It was but you, leading us

Amongst an unseen labyrinth of rocks,

Lurking beneath the waves,

Waiting to gore the very belly of our vessel.


And when we did dally in quiet waters,

Squirming in the frustration of idleness,

It was but you, sheltering us,

From the wrathful vengeance

Of a passing tempest.


When we did veer from the charted channel,

It was but you, wending us

Past deceitful shifting sands,

Upon which, the line plumbed of old

Would have us run aground.


And again, when we did take

An improbable and turbulent detour,

It was but you, circumnavigating us

Past a raging maelstrom,

Which would drag us to the deep.


When we did drop an anchor,

Ceasing progress for no known cause,

It was but you, holding us

Steady against the adverse ebb,

Which would sweep us to oblivion.


Then when we did up anchor

To ride a crazy, rudderless time,

It was but you, riding us

Upon the favourable flood,

Resolute against our misplaced fear.


When we did turn hither and thither,

Our compass dizzy with unsought points,

It was but you, tacking us

Into a most uncharitable headwind,

That would have us blown away.


And when the moonless night

Did raise our dread untold,

It was but you who lent a gentle oar,

To keep us moving onward

Through the darkness.


Then as a sea-mist gathered to a fog,

All beacons extinguished,

Our pole star gone,

It was but you, that coaxed us

Forward without our sextant’s sighting.


Then in those shrouding vapours,

All sight and sound lost to the dark,

The wind no longer in our sails,

The waters took on a deathly stillness.

We stopped.


Lost to the doldrums:

No means to move, nor steerage,

Nor even the hope of direction;

There did you abandon us to our misery.

And I did hate you for your infidelity.


Lost we were, in anguish unfathomed,

With no more a guide to rescue us.

Overboard had gone our hopes,

Our tentative thoughts of homely rest,

Our dreams of lying in lovers’ arms.


On that bare deck, devoid of stores,

The last barrel of water

Drained to our unquenchable thirst,

There did we weep bitterly

For what would be no more.


So it was, abandoned thus,

That a pale, unwished for sun did rise.

With puny rays did it face the impenetrable.

Yet through its timeless caress,

It did, by degrees, melt those mists.


So by the zenith we can see once more.

And Lo!  Around us lies a harbour wall.

Those still waters are no listless sea,

But the sheltered womb

Of our home port.


For though I know not

How it was done,

You did bring us whither we would be.


Now rest awhile,

Oh naked flame of discontent,

Until, once more, we must to sea.

22/08/2011

Strolling through the fields near the village, my attention was drawn to some downy seeds which were drifting through the air. Backlit by the late afternoon sun, they looked radiant, magical even. There was barely any wind, merely the hint of a breeze. Yet it was enough, to carry the seeds aloft.


Where would the seeds land? Nobody could say. The seeds themselves had no idea. Yet they were happy to float through the air, borne along by the gentle breeze, in complete trust that they would be carried wherever they needed to go.


Such is the life of a downy seed. Such is the life of a buddha.

17/08/2011

If, seeing the word blackberries, you are expecting an essay about so called smart phones, you are about to be disappointed. For I am going to write some words about the fruit, a better invention by far than any smart phone.


This morning, walking along the towpath by the side of a canal, I spotted some ripe looking blackberries. I popped one in my mouth. Ah! the ecstasy, as my taste buds exploded with joy at the sweetness, the utter blackberry-ness of the blackberry. How amazing, that sunshine, together with a few other ingredients, had been converted into this delightful experience!


The blackberry reminded me of a little incident that happened many years ago, around the time of the start of my spiritual exploration. I was attending a two day personal growth workshop and in the evening, at the end of the first day, I wandered along a cliff top path, looking for a place to sleep for the night. I was struggling with things. (It is getting difficult for me to remember how much of a struggle life used to be!) My mind was busy with all my woes. And then I spotted a blackberry. Just one. A solitary fruit. Inviting.


The invitation was irresistible and the blackberry landed on my tongue. Immediately, the taste cut right through my thoughts. For a few moments I was present. A natural meditation happened, spontaneously.


Our troubles are only troubles because we give them energy.


Instead of wallowing in our difficulties, we need merely take a little stroll and pop a blackberry in the mouth. The gifts of existence abound.

15/07/2011

I woke up this morning feeling well rested and revitalised. The morning sun coming through the window was promising a perfect summer’s day. And, so far at least, that promise has been honoured.


All morning, I have felt life to be flowing smoothly, effortlessly, beautifully. This is not only on the outside but the inside too. The outer world is indeed a reflection of the inner world. Today these worlds are absolutely perfect. Not an atom is out of place. Even the tiniest of movements is happening at just the right time. It is a divine dance.


A part of this flow is a feeling of complete openness towards other human beings. There is presence, a soft love and an availability. It is a satsang without the structured setting. I guess that something from the recent Path of Love has been integrated into my being.


Thank you existence!

11/07/2011

This blog began with an entry about the Path of Love, which is an intensive group process designed to help us drop any unnecessary barriers which we are creating between ourself and others, between ourself and life, and to get in touch with our deepest yearnings.


I have just helped staff another Path of Love, again at Croydon Hall in the UK. Once again, I was plunged into the space of deep respect, compassion and openness towards everyone in the group, participants and staff alike. It is such a beautiful space to find oneself in; relating to others from our buddha-nature, without judgement. I recommend the Path of Love for everyone.


There was one funny little incident which I feel to share with you here. Another staff member was mopping the floor of the large hall after some dancing. I was drying the floor using some old towelling. I had been doing this for some time when it slowly dawned on me that the floor was drying very nicely on its own, due to skilful mopping using hot water in modest quantities. Eventually, someone commented that the floor was drying on its own. “I know,” I said, “but what to do? If I stop now I will feel so stupid.” Of course, I stopped. The cat was out of the bag. People laughed and clapped. And then came the real beauty: feeling stupid in front of a room full of people felt absolutely fine, in no way unpleasant.


For me, this little incident was symbolic of how we strive in life, thinking that our efforts are achieving things. In reality, we need only relax into our essence and everything that needs to happen, happens, effortlessly.

09/07/2011

[See the previous blog entry for background.]


Splat finally died. And so did the one other hitherto-surviving runt amongst the baby quail. The remaining bevy consists of 13 chicks who have more than doubled in size over the last week and all look destined to reach maturity.


Natural selection, it would seem, has taken its course.


May you rest in peace, Splat. And I trust that you will be reborn as an overpaid City of London banker with a penchant for game shooting in the highland estates of Scotland. Selection, these days, is not always so natural!

25/06/2011

Yesterday I was musing about ducklings and cygnets; today it is the turn of baby quail.


A dear friend of mine has an aviary which is home to some quail, amongst other birds. The quail never bother flying. Instead they reserve their energies for running around on the ground and procreating. Not to put too fine a point on it, they are at it like rabbits.


From this, come many eggs. The fathers take a leaf out of my book and leave the parenting entirely to the mothers. Unfortunately for the would-be chicks, the mothers take a similar stance and don’t bother sitting on the eggs. 


Three weeks ago, the lot of the foundling eggs improved markedly, when my friend inherited an incubator. This machine acts as mum, warming and turning the eggs. And it worked: A few days ago 20 or more little chicks emerged.


The chicks are living in a nursery and for the most part thriving. They look cute. And sometimes they behave in a cute way, cuddling up next to each other. But at other times they are anything but friendly. They give each other an occasional peck, perhaps to establish a pecking order, although I have to say, it looks like sheer belligerence. Maybe they are deeply angry with existence for being brought into the world by a machine instead of a warm, fluffy, breathing, living mother.


Whatever the reason for the miniature hen pecking, it reaches its most horrific form in relation to the enfeebled chicks. A few of the little ones don’t look as vital as the rest, lying sprawled out as the others run around, often right over them as if they are doormats. These weaklings are picked on, and pecked at, mercilessly, by their siblings. Most of the unfortunate ones have now died, leaving 15 chicks of which two are still being harassed for their imperfections.


Today the bullying went a step further, or rather, several steps back: One of the weaklings, affectionately known as Splat, is perfectly healthy except that his legs stick out horizontally, permanently in the splits, rather than holding him aloft. Splat gets around with a sort of swimming motion. It is a struggle but eventually he gets where he wants to go. This afternoon, watching Splat wriggle and worm his way over to some food, I was appalled to see one of his siblings stride over, grab him by taking one of his outstretched feet in the beak, and run several paces backwards, dragging the hapless Splat away from the food.


It would seem that we humans are not the only ones in need of primal therapy and family constellations!